Moonja, my parents never told me I was adopted. After their deaths, I learned the truth after my sister, Melissa (also adopted), found out from our cousin, Gina, who was adopted as well. Needless to say I was stunned. I felt like my relationship with my parents was based on a lie. The discovery destroyed a piece of my identity. Over the last six years, I've been digging into my bio family history and blogging about it: www.adopteerevelations.com
What was your relationship with your parents like before they told you that you were adopted?